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31段話,可以增長你的智慧


非常有智慧的31段話,分享給大家!!
 
1、蜘蛛:能坐享其成,靠的就是那張關係網。 
 
2、蝦:大紅之日,便是大悲之時。 
 
3、天平:誰多給一點,就偏向誰。 
 
4、瀑布:因居高臨下,才口若懸河。 
 
5、鋸子:伶牙俐齒,專做離間行為。 
 
6、氣球:只要被人一吹,便飄飄然了。 
 
7、鐘錶:可以回到起點,卻已不是昨天 
 
8、核桃:沒有華麗的外表,卻有充實的大腦。 
 
9、花瓶:外表再漂亮,也掩不住內心的空虛。
 
10、飯桌上批評孩子:大人傷神,孩子傷胃,全家傷心 
 
11、一個人當他:
  牛皮越吹越大,本事卻越來越小
  脾氣越來越大,才氣卻越來越小
  膽量越來越大,肚量卻越來越小
  玩勁越來越大,幹勁卻越來越小
  權力越來越大,威信卻越來越小
  架子越來越大,人格卻越來越小
 
12、男人的年齡由自己來感覺;
  女人的年齡由別人來感覺。 
 
13、一個人: 
  揮不去的是記憶; 
  留不住的是年華; 
  拎不起的是失落; 
  放不下的是情感; 
  輸不起的是尊嚴。 
 
14、說話的三條底線: 
  一、力圖說真話; 
  二、不能說真話,則保持沉默; 
  三、無權保持沉默而不得不說假話時,不應傷害他人。 
 
15、凡是小事都要大聲說; 
  凡是大事都要小聲說。 
 
16、權力是暫時的; 
  財產是後人的; 
  健康是自己的; 
  關係是重要的; 
  友情是珍貴的。 
 
17、讓人聽,容易; 
  叫人服,困難。 
 
18、連空氣都混濁了,兩袖還能有清風嗎? 
 
19、這社會: 
  教授越來越多,教書的越來越少; 
  博士越來越多,博學的越來越少; 
  戀愛的越來越多,戀學的越來越少; 
  鑽營的越來越多,鑽研的越來越少。 
 
20、理解可溝通心靈;信任則連接心靈。 
 
21、偏愛難免,偏見不可。 
 
22、謬論不足以解惑,真言卻可以解憂。 
 
23、超過別人一點點,別人就會嫉妒你; 
  超過別人一大截,別人就會羡慕你。 
 
24、大公無私為聖人,
  公而忘私為賢人,
 
  先公後私為善人,
 
  先人後己為良人,
 
  公私兼顧為常人,
 
  損公肥私為罪人。
 
 
25、可以命令士兵的行動,
 
  但不能命令士兵的忠誠。 
 
26、處順事之境愈宜靜; 
  處逆事之境愈宜忍; 
  處至急之事愈宜緩; 
  處至大之事愈宜平。 
 
27、安詳方能靜觀,
 
  靜觀方能明斷,
 
  明斷方能行動。
 
 
28、愛情之酒,
  兩個人喝是甘露,
  三個人喝是酸醋,
  隨便喝便會中毒。 
 
29、背對太陽,陰影一片; 
  迎著太陽,霞光萬丈。 
 
30、勇者,腳下都是路; 
  智者,知道走哪一條路最好。 
 
31、無過是一種理想,
 
  思過是一種成熟,
 
  改過是一種美德。


原文網址: 【生活智慧】31段話,可以增長你的智慧 http://appnews.fanswong.com/show.php?id=51190#ixzz2GEFf5P6V

Workaholics

If you want to make the big bucks, you’ve got to be willing to put in a little overtime. And while we’re generally all about working smarter (not longer), it’s worth noting that tons of America’s richest business owners earned their billions only after putting their noses to the grindstones and becoming serious workaholics.
But being a workaholic alone doesn’t guarantee major earnings. Here’s a list of 4 famous American workaholics, along with their “secret weapon” for success.


1.Thomas Edison
Major Accomplishments: 1,093 US patents at the time of his death (plus more in several other countries around the globe), often credited with the creation of the first industrial research laboratory. Oh yeah, and that whole “inventing” the lightbulb thing.
Secret Weapon: Never being reluctant to work long hours or work hard.
“I never did anything worth doing entirely by accident…. Almost none of my inventions were derived in that manner. They were achieved by having trained myself to be analytical and to endure and tolerate hard work.”
Edison wasn’t about working smarter, just working harder. And that doesn’t come as much of a surprise to us today, given that one of Edison’s most famous quotes is “Genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration.”
But most people don’t realize that that’s only half the quote. Just like the New Hampshire state motto of “Live Free or Die”, there’s more to the quote than just the most frequently repeated bits. Here’s the whole Edison quote:
“Genius is one per cent inspiration and ninety-nine per cent perspiration. Accordingly, a  ‘genius’ is often merely a talented person who has done all of his or her homework.”  
(Incidentally, the full quote that “Live Free or Die” was extracted from comes from General John Stark, who once wrote, “Live free or die: Death is not the worst of all evils.”)

2. Oprah
Major Accomplishments: Winner of multiple Emmy awards, author, humanitarian, and a net worth of around $2.7 billion.
Secret Weapon: Do what you love, and work doesn’t feel like work.
“What I know is, is that if you do work that you love, and the work fulfills you, the rest will come.”
Oprah works crazy long hours, has a magazine and a TV show and now a whole TV network;. The secret to her success has to be loving what she does, and when she can bring so much good to charities and other good causes, it’s easy to see why she’s happy to work so hard.

3. Donald Trump
Major Accomplishments: Real estate magnate, TV show host, casino owner, and operator of numerous national beauty pageants.
Secret Weapon: Seeing work as a way to get a rush of adrenaline
“Deals are my art form. Other people paint beautifully on canvas or write wonderful poetry. I like making deals, preferably big deals. That’s how I get my kicks.”
Trump’s made his position on workaholics very clear. After a 2007 study found that America was “a nation of workaholics”, Trump told the New York Post that “They don’t want to miss what’s going on. Although vacations are supposed to be about de-stressing, some people admitted it would be more stressful not knowing what was going on at work while they were away. And those are the kind of people I want working for me.”
It’s easy for someone with Trump’s level of success to love working, because he gets a rush from sealing a deal. If work is fun, perhaps even addictive, then it’s no wonder he’s a workaholic.

4. Bill Gates
Major Accomplishments: Making the computer a common household appliance, forming the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, and accumulating a net worth of over $50 billion.
Secret Weapon: Not being a control freak, and soliciting ideas from a talented team of employees.
“At Microsoft there are lots of brilliant ideas but the image is that they all come from the top – I’m afraid that’s not quite right.”
A company is only as strong as the sum of its parts, and it’s refreshing to see that Gates is willing to credit Microsoft’s success to his co-workers and employees.
As Gates has said in past interviews, “Bringing together the right information with the right people will dramatically improve a company’s ability to develop and act on strategic business opportunities.”
Conclusion
Working hard is all well and good, but make sure to play hard, too. While the workaholic lifestyle was right for these famous faces, it can put a major strain on your heart and your personal life. And the last thing you want is to be too invested in your work, like P.T. Barnum. As he lay dying, Barnum’s last words were, “How were the receipts today at Madison Square Garden?”



resources from : http://www.lifehack.org/articles/management/4-famous-workaholics-and-the-secrets-of-their-success.html

Secrets to success Pt. 2

Secrets to success Pt. 1



productivity and time go hand in hand. you must use your time wisely because you can never buy or buy back time. Every minute you wait, every minute you procrastinate, every minute you decide to sit out is minutes wasted from the end result. Inception is the beginning piece to your life. Inception is the MOST IMPORTANT part of your life. what are you going to do? how are you going to do it?....mistakes are a part of life but mistakes are needed to get past all our mental barriers. remember that "its no mistake if its always repeated."

《你也可以不一样》

演讲后的感言:

这是我第一次认识他,也我是第一次听他的讲座。(当然他不认识我,但我肯定有朝一日他会认识我的大名!)


关于他的历史和成长,很庆幸能够听到他的分享:

-在他小时候为帮补家用(让我最记得的一幕是他在中三的一天,在路边卖万字成绩发现自己不能再堕落下去,未来一定要成功 --- 我最喜欢的就是他人生的一个转折点)

-他在大学生涯对自己下的定位并不断的努力,生活上经验的累积塑造今天的他。


至于这次演讲的主题是《你可以不一样》,他主要分享的是---大学生必须找到自己,了解自己并发挥自己。

本人在讲座中抄下了一些我觉得值得分享的名句或者知识。(挺多一下^^)

-“毕业五年,决定一生” = 在大学生涯中,我们必须充实自己进步自己,为未来准备!

-“认识残酷,捉住幸福”

-大学生涯把握的重点 = 给自己磨练的空间,累积自己的历练。

-任何一件事只要你能待续每天至少1小时做上……

Ø 一年,你就在其领域上的专家!

Ø 两年,你就在其领域上的权威!

Ø 三年,你就在其领域上的泰斗!


-35岁之前,以量为主,为深度为重点。35岁以后,以宽度为主。

-一天两天没什么差异;一年两年两彼此的落差就显露出来了!(滴水穿石。)

-扩大你的舒适圈……

Ø 挑战舒适圈

Ø 扩大舒适圈

Ø 占领舒适圈


-Believe in yourself, practice it, achieve it. Be the legend of the legend.

-最后,这是我最喜欢的一句。

“在创业的过程中,我时时刻刻铭记于心的是,凭全力,豁出去!”


#个人很欣赏陈礼祥在社会上的贡献,最重要的是他很鼓励大学生找到真正的自己并规划自己人生蓝图。在我对他初步的了解,他挺喜欢看书尤其是激励书…这是我跟他的共同点!希望很快就会有跟他第二次接触,交流交流!

Prepare for a Challenge


Challenge and Innovation are popular,pleasant-sounding words. In the reality,however, they lead to hardships and risks that require unimaginable amounts of hard work, patience, and courage.

In my opinion, we should not even say the word challenge until we have gathered the necessary ingredients for innovation. We must be able to back this w
ord up with the courage to face a challenge and the stamina to withstand long, crushing hardships.

In Japan,a person who uses the word challenge without preparing any such backup is called a 'banyuu',or a reckless fool.

Only if we are well prepared mentally can we continually challenge ourselves to innovate in business management. Additionally.our enterprise must be in good financial shape, with enough capital to launch new projects and sail them safely to completion. When you want to innovate,you must begin with a firm conviction, extreme courage, daily perseverance, and the skills acquired through personal experience.
''Extensive financial and mentalpreparation is necessary before we can challenge and innovation''

~copied from {A Passion For Success by KAZUO INAMORI}

Wrestle in the Center of the Ring

I always keep in mind and tell myself to wrestle in the center of the ring. That means to act on the challenges immediately, and not wait until you are pushed to the edge of a deadline.

I am sure most of us have the experience of burning the midnight oil before an exam. Many of us must have run out of time and faced a test in a desperate mood. Since the time and date of an exam are scheduled beforehand, we should start sooner if we want to get a good grade. But many of us don't.

In Japan Sumo wrestling, we see that some wrestlers wait until they are on the very edge of the ring and about to be thrown out before they really fight to defend themselves. I often wonder why they don't use their 'super power'
strength while they are still in the center.
Our life is no different. when we are in the center of the ring, we feel relaxed (shuang~) because there is plenty of time and room to make our moves. Then we put forth a flurry of activity when we are pushed to the edge of the ring.

We should always pretend that there is no time or room left, and make our efforts long before we are actually about to be pushed out of the ring.

~Prepare ''reserves'', then act as though you have no reserve at all. This is the secret of a stable life.~ Kazuo Inamori

Heaven or Hell?


A young Buddhist monk once asked a wise priest to describe hell. the old priest replied that in hell, there is a giant cooking pot, a yard wide, filled with delicious noodles -- however, your only serving utensils are chopsticks which are also a yard in length.


''You can imagine what happens.'' the priest explained. ''Everybody is hungry and fighting to feel themselves with the yard-long chopsticks. They manage to pick noodles up, but the chop-sticks are too long to maneuver the noodles into their mouths. They become frantic and flounder at the noodles, each wanting to be the first to eat, and they even attack others for their food. In the end, with the noodles everywhere but in their mouths, they suffer a permanent, agonizing hunger.''

The young monk then asked for a description of heaven, to which the old priest replied: ''Heaven is actually quite the same. Only there, each person picks up the noodles and offers them to someone on the other side of the pot, saying ' Please be the first to enjoy this wonderful mea.' And the other accepts the food, saying 'Thank you, and please allow me to return you the kindness.' Trough their unselfish minds, they enjoy eternal bliss.''


{In our real life journey, everything can be heaven or hell, depending on whether we view them as win-lose situations , zero-sum games, or win-win opportunities of compounding synergy}


-copied from [A Passion For Success] , written by Kazuo Inamori